Several of my friends have recently, merely by striving to overcome the shit circumstances they find themselves in, proven to me how lucky I am. Not just in my family and friends, but in life in general:
The Coolness had a very tough year, and came through healthier than she went into it. She’s working as a teaching assistant at my daughter’s school, and doing so well that the principal made statements indicating her great confidence in The Coolness’ abilities.
My kid kicks ass, and I am blessed with the opportunities to observe and coach her and her young friends at soccer, something few get the chance to do. She is also very sharp at school, reasonably well-mannnered, and the apple of her daddy’s eye. Not bad for my simple, fervent wish of almost eight years ago that she simply be born healthy and whole.
I have a job to whine about. This is certainly not to be taken for granted, though I know I too often focus too much on the tiny negatives in the workplace (like asshats and their asshattery). It is, however, sure motivation for the next thing I have to feel lucky about.
I was published this last year, and paid near a thousand dollars for my work. That’s pretty damn cool. It was confirmation I have a modicum of talent for this writing thing that might lead to a second career.
I survived a thankfully minor accident on the motorbike, and was even able to make my daughter’s soccer dinner that very night.
I had the opportunity to reconnect with a friend of mine of 28 years. Not only did we manage to meet in a city neither of us live in, we had an incredible time and made a number of new friends (WFC was the shit! If you missed it, you need not do so again. If you write or read fantasy, go.) Among those new amigos were some guys who have consistently taken care of me, and been great fun to shoot the shit with.
I am thankful for all the experiences this undeserving, loud-mouthed, Ranting Griffin has had in the last year, and hope that if your year was less than stellar, that it is only because the stars were aligning for your future, and you need only endure this brief while.
I certainly hope to be there to help and encourage every one of the people that have proven me so very lucky in my friends and life.
For now, my lovely daughter is smiling at me, and I go to join her and The Coolness…